Friday, January 21, 2011

how to handle a jeolus Girlfriend

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How To Deal With your jealous Girlfriend


Dealing with a jealous girlfriend can be pretty tough so you should try not to give her any excuse to be jealous. One big thing is not to look at other girls. Sure, there is no harm in looking. Everybody does it. But if you are walking along with your girlfriend on your arm and you give another lovely lady ‘the eye’ then you are just causing trouble for yourself. At the very least, be discreet and respect your girlfriend enough not to do it when they are around.

If you have several friends who happen to be women, you might need to spend less time with them until you and your girlfriend can manage to get over the jealousy issues. This can be a tough call and your friends may not like it but if you feel that your girlfriend is worth the effort, then you should try to make her happy. Just don’t let it be permanent. True friends are hard to find and you risk hurting them by suddenly excluding them.

Thursday, January 20, 2011

OLD LOVER COMES BACK

Hi guys lets help each other here, if someone who used to be involved with your lover comes back after a couple of years(say 2 years for example), what do you do? do you allow them to get back together or do you interogate both of them separately to get a clarity about the whole situation? 

firstly, ask yourself, do i really love this person? if the answer is yes then do everything in your power to stop your girlfriend's/boyfriend's ex from interfering. how do you go about this, well, thats up to you but just dont use any violence. on a serious note, if you love your spouse i suggest you ask them how they feel about that person, the answer should be straight forward, if he/she starts mumbling then something is wrong. and the other question you should ask yourself is 'how did this two start communicating again and who started, if your lover is the initiator, then you need to start expanding your boundries... for the sake of your heart.

But if your just having fun with someone and never picture yourself in future with them, then if their ex comes back just let them go and  start searching for your own soul mate. i know we all have one soulmate...

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Get all your questions about love and relationships answered!!!


                                                    
If you ever find yourself confused about love and relationships, you've come to the right place. here you can get your questions answered quickly and accurately
im here to help you make the right decisions concerning love and relationships, for example if you feel like u are fed up with your spouse, lover, boyfriend or girlfriend, and want to get out of the relationship, take a second to think about it. think about all the good things you did with him or her when the relationship was still rocking.

Take a look at the following questions and answers:

1.Question: why do i always fight with my lover about stupid things?

Answer: if you ever find yourself in a situation where your shouting or swearing at your lover,take a second to think about it. you might be angry over something useless that can be resolved by putting yourself in your lover's shoes. also ask yourself, is my lover doing what he/she is doing to benefit our companion, for example, your lover might be working late to get more money for paying kids school fees or to pay off debts that concerns both of you. now, to answer the question why lovers always fight,the answer is simple, most lovers expect each other to be perfect, they always want their needs to come first.

Solution: if your so angry to your lover and feel like exploding, let it go, yeah just like that.i know it might be difficult to do so but believe me, it could help to maintain happiness in your relationship.

2.why do i lie to my Lover?

Answer: most people will tell you they lie because they want to protect what they have with someone,well! that could be true...or not.in most cases people lie because of greediness or just looking for things that your lover cannot offer or because he/she used to offer you something and no longer does. if you find yourself lying to your lover, you might be considering living him/her or maybe your just fed up and want something new...

solution: Lie to your boyfriend or girlfriend about things that does not concern your relationship. try to tell him/her about all the people you think have a crush on you, that way you'll be taking a precaution if your lover finds out from someone.

3.question: Do i love him/her?

Answer: if you ever find yourself asking this kind of question, you might be considering to break up with your lover OR maybe that person is new to your life and you dont want make a regretful decision. the answer to this question is simple and to the point, if he/she makes you happy and you cant survive a day without seeing them, if you laugh more than five times in a space of an hour in their company and if you always think of a bright future with this person, then your definitely love, PERIOD!!!

4.what can i do to find love?

Answer: if you are looking for true love or just looking for fun, the rules are the same; go out more, don't look desperate,only try with people in the same leauge as yours,always look good in front of the person you want as a lover and you may also join dating clubs and social networks like Facebook.

5.Why do people Cheat?



Answer: The problem is that sometimes people are quick to point the finger at others rather than analyze why the individual cheated. Maybe your own actions had a big role in pushing the other to the brink of temptation.

By blaming and labeling others, it inevitably hinders people from looking deeper into the problem and trying to resolve it before it recurs with another mate.

The common belief is, I'm not a bad person. I don't need to change, I'm not the one who cheated. The result is that the whole process repeats itself without being rectified, which is probably why so many men and women complain about having been cheated on in so many relationships.